Free Material that Enables Deeper Relating in a Group
We welcome those who are in a group, or who would like to start a group, to explore Sergio’s free groupwork material. Each piece is designed to help you go deeper in your relationships, individually and as a group, team or family.
License
We’ve decided to make Yes to Myself available as free, print-friendly pieces to help group leaders find much-needed resources for their communities. Please feel free to tell your colleagues about this page, to link your website to it, and to include it in any way or portion in your teaching. We ask that Sergio Milandri be credited in your use of this work, and that a hyperlink to http://www.relating.com be provided with your work. The below pieces may be used in commercial projects without prior written or verbal consent from the author or this website.
Group Guidelines for Sharing
Sergio’s 15 Group Guidelines for Sharing are included in the Introduction below. We recommend that everyone running, or seeking to run, a group consult this section initially, and for refreshment from time to time.
Free Groupwork Pieces
Introduction
Chapter 1: Overview
Yes to Myself_Part 1_God’s Yes to Me
Yes to Myself_Part 2_The World’s ‘If’ to us
Yes to Myself_Part 3_God’s Invitation
Yes to Myself_Part 4_The Usual Response
Yes to Myself_Part 5_The End of our Tether
Chapter 2: Relationship with Self
Yes to Myself_Part 6_The Journey of Life
Yes to Myself_Part 7_Risk
Yes to Myself_Part 8_’I am Many’
Yes to Myself_Part 9_Looking at ourselves
Yes to Myself_Part 10_Accepting Ourselves-I
Yes to Myself_Part 11_Accepting Ourselves-II
Yes to Myself_Part 12_Feelings, The Language of Relationship
Yes to Myself_Part 13_Deeper Feelings
Yes to Myself_Part 14_Sources of our Feelings
Yes to Myself_Part 15_’As you Love Yourself’
Yes to Myself_Part 16_Are we on Course?
Chapter 3: Relationship with God
Yes to Myself_Part 17_Anxieties about God
Yes to Myself_Part 18_Who God is not
Yes to Myself_Part 19_My Experience of God
Yes to Myself_Part 20_God as Father
Yes to Myself_Part 21_God as Mother
Yes to Myself_Part 22_Who am I for God?
Yes to Myself_Part 23_Jesus Christ for me
Yes to Myself_Part 24_The Love of God
Yes to Myself_Part 25_The Bride of Christ
Yes to Myself_Part 26_Suffer Little Children
Yes to Myself_Part 27_Awareness
Yes to Myself_Part 28_Free From and Free For
Yes to Myself_Part 29_Our Worldview
Yes to Myself_Part 30_Now Choose Life
Yes to Myself_Part 31_Inner Agenda
Yes to Myself_Part 32_Self-Centredness
Chapter 4: Relationship with Family
Yes to Myself_Part 33_I am my Family
Yes to Myself_Part 34_‘Leave Father and Mother’
Yes to Myself_Part 35_Anger
Yes to Myself_Part 36_Un-control-ability
Yes to Myself_Part 37_Submerged Anger
Yes to Myself_Part 38_Why do we do this?
Chapter 5: Relationship with Others
Yes to Myself_Part 39_Loving God, Loving Others
Yes to Myself_Part 40_Love out of Acceptance
Yes to Myself_Part 41_Make me happy
Yes to Myself_Part 42_Emotional Accounts
Yes to Myself_Part 43_Sin as Breakdown of Relationship
Yes to Myself_Part 44_Loneliness
Chapter 6: Relationship with Community
Yes to Myself_Part 45_Labelling
Yes to Myself_Part 46_To Carry Pain
Yes to Myself_Part 47_As One Body
Yes to Myself_Part 48_One Body, Many Parts
Yes to Myself_Part 49_Deepening Resistance
Chapter 7: Relationship with Things
Yes to Myself_Part 50_Security and Dependence
Yes to Myself_Part 51_Material Compensation
Yes to Myself_Part 52_Is Enough Enough?
Yes to Myself_Part 53_Whom do we Serve?
Yes to Myself_Part 54_The Freedom in This Present Moment
Chapter 8: Relationship with Death
Yes to Myself_Part 55_Small Deaths
Yes to Myself_Part 56_Fear
Yes to Myself_Part 57_Fear of God
Yes to Myself_Part 58_Wise Fear of God
Yes to Myself_Part 59_Lazarus
Yes to Myself_Part 60_Finale (and Reading List)